LGBTQ+ Weddings at Southdowns Manor – A Beautiful, Inclusive Venue for Every Love Story
Same Sex Marriages in West Sussex

Celebrate Your Love—Your Way at One of Hampshire’s Most Inclusive Wedding Venues
At Southdowns Manor, we believe love is love. As one of the leading LGBTQ+ friendly wedding venues in Hampshire, we are proud to celebrate and support all couples—regardless of gender identity or sexual orientation. Whether you are planning a same-sex wedding, a civil partnership, or a celebration unique to you, our award-winning venue offers the perfect setting for your unforgettable day.
Since the legalisation of same-sex marriage in England on 29th March 2014, we have proudly hosted hundreds of beautiful weddings for LGBTQ+ couples. Our mission is simple: to create a safe, inclusive, and joyful space where every couple can say “I do” their way.
An LGBTQ+ Friendly Wedding Venue in the Heart of the South Downs National Park
Tucked away in the peaceful South Downs countryside, Southdowns Manor is an exclusive-use wedding venue that offers complete privacy and flexibility for your special day. From gay weddings to lesbian weddings, non-binary ceremonies and transgender celebrations, we welcome all love stories with open arms.
Whether you’re looking for an intimate elopement or a full-scale celebration, our team will work closely with you to personalise your experience from start to finish.
Personalise Your Wedding Ceremony – Your Love Story, Your Way
Your wedding should be as unique as your love story. We offer complete freedom to customise your civil ceremony, allowing you to choose your own vows, readings, music, and more. From modern and meaningful to traditional and timeless, your wedding can be whatever you want it to be.
Choose from Three Licensed Ceremony Spaces:
- The Conservatory – Light-filled and intimate, ideal for ceremonies with up to 40 guests.
- The Sussex Room – Cosy and romantic with a roaring fire, also suitable for up to 40 guests.
- The Banqueting Suite – Elegant and spacious, holding up to 120 guests for larger celebrations.
Each space can be tailored to match your wedding theme, floral preferences, and overall aesthetic, creating a picture-perfect setting for your ceremony.
Exclusive-Use LGBTQ+ Wedding Venue in Hampshire
Exclusive-Use LGBTQ+ Wedding Venue in Hampshire
When you book your wedding at Southdowns Manor, the entire venue is yours for the day. Our exclusive-use wedding packages ensure you’ll never have to share your space with other events or guests, allowing for complete freedom and privacy.
What Exclusive Use Means for Your Wedding:
- No other bookings or distractions—just you, your loved ones, and your celebration
- Full flexibility to personalise décor, entertainment, and flow of the day
- Access to beautifully landscaped gardens and luxurious indoor spaces
- A private, tranquil setting perfect for photos and intimate moments
All-Inclusive Wedding Packages Tailored to You
We offer a range of all-inclusive wedding packages designed to make your planning journey smooth and stress-free. From your welcome drinks to your wedding breakfast and evening entertainment, everything is taken care of with care and professionalism.
Our Wedding Packages Include:
- Expert wedding planning and on-the-day coordination
- Award-winning chefs crafting bespoke menus, with full dietary flexibility
- Music and entertainment options including DJs and live performers
- Spacious dance floor and atmospheric lighting
- In-house PA system for speeches and ceremony sound
- Luxury accommodation for guests and newlyweds
- Romantic honeymoon suite for your first night as a married couple
- Outdoor activities and lawn games to entertain your guests
We also welcome external and cultural caterers for couples wishing to bring their own traditions into the celebration.
Why LGBTQ+ Couples Choose Southdowns Manor
We’re proud to be one of the most respected and inclusive wedding venues in Hampshire. Our experienced team understands that no two love stories are the same, and we’re here to support you in creating a wedding day that is 100% true to you.
Reasons to Choose Southdowns Manor for Your Same-Sex Wedding:
- Fully inclusive, no-judgement policy—your love is always respected and celebrated
- Years of experience hosting LGBTQ+ weddings and civil ceremonies
- Romantic countryside location in the South Downs National Park
- Flexible ceremony and reception spaces
- Personalised planning support from a dedicated wedding team